Often, before you are ready to welcome a baby into your family you find yourself already rushing to do some of the things that will be required for a new family member. At first, you might consider offering your space but that’s not ideal. So, how do you build space for the new baby?
Every parent has a way of getting a place for their child. This way may take some time to learn, but once you do, you should use it. The child knows from the very beginning that she needs to get into this space for her, even before she is born. Now you can do all the preparations for her, and then you can put her right in her place
The first step you should take after your baby is born is to offer space that is necessary for the child to grow. The baby must get used to a lot of things and then the surrounding world and the idea of your home will be different. Once she is established in her new home, she can build a life there.
When you offer her the space that she needs, you must also offer it as part of your house. You must build a room for her in your home. Many mothers struggle with this concept because they are afraid to give up too much of their room and decor to their child. They feel that they cannot give up too much without compromising the room that they grew up in. This is a mistake.
Once you have cleared out the space that she needs for her to have, you should try to take the time to decorate the room. All the little things, from the crib to the shoes that she will be wearing while in her new room, should be decorated, and you should take the time to put those decorations in her place as well.
If you try to offer her the room that she needs, she will be the best friend as your new family member. She will treat you with love and patience, and this is the first step in building a relationship.